121 | Doc Chocolate interviews Karissa Koxx & husband PJ

WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:01.140 Doc Chocolate: 2. 2 00:00:02.600 --> 00:00:17.329 Doc Chocolate: What's up? What's up? Everybody? It is Doc, chocolate of the bulls and queens. Podcast and today we have a very beautiful couple who are near and dear friends to me. But before we get started, and before we introduce these lovely people 3 00:00:17.330 --> 00:00:39.600 Doc Chocolate: 1st off, I would like for you guys, you gals that are listening to this to make sure you follow me, the podcast the show on whatever podcast, platform you're listening to this, on, so be it apple or spotify, or Youtube, or whatever platform you're listening to this on. Make sure you hit that. Follow button so that you can 4 00:00:39.600 --> 00:00:46.399 Doc Chocolate: get the 1st taken. Listen of all my latest podcasts that I publish. 5 00:00:46.470 --> 00:01:16.190 Doc Chocolate: and also make sure that you go to doccholybbc.com. And there you can see a little bit of the stuff that I do behind the scenes with other guys wives, and they're watching, and they're having fun. I'm having fun. I'm probably having just a little bit more fun than they are. But, hey, who's counting right? They they deliver the check, and I cash it. So that's all I'm going to say about that. So doccholybbc.com check it out. 6 00:01:16.630 --> 00:01:21.620 Doc Chocolate: So without further ado, drum roll, please 7 00:01:21.720 --> 00:01:32.150 Doc Chocolate: let me introduce Miss Carissa Cox and Mr. Pj. Cox. Give them a hand. 8 00:01:35.260 --> 00:01:35.960 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Good evening. 9 00:01:36.770 --> 00:01:39.459 Doc Chocolate: Good evening. So how y'all doing today. 10 00:01:39.780 --> 00:01:41.180 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Good doing well. 11 00:01:41.430 --> 00:01:52.110 Doc Chocolate: Awesome, awesome. So go ahead and introduce yourselves like, give us the the 4 1, 1, the 30 second elevator pitch pitch I was about to say, pitch 12 00:01:52.340 --> 00:01:57.089 Doc Chocolate: on. Who is Carissa Cox? Who is Pj. Cox, and all that good stuff. 13 00:01:59.026 --> 00:02:07.350 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So I'm Chrissa Cox. This is my husband. Pj, we have been in the lifestyle. Gosh! Now, for like 14 00:02:07.480 --> 00:02:15.791 Karissa and PJ Koxx: 5 or so years we've been married. Well, we're coming up on 25 in March and 15 00:02:16.830 --> 00:02:27.810 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I started doing content at the end of February this year. So I'm coming up on one year of being a content Creator. So kind of like. 16 00:02:28.500 --> 00:02:34.139 Karissa and PJ Koxx: our world's been a little bit like, I guess. What would you say? Like 17 00:02:34.680 --> 00:02:39.559 Karissa and PJ Koxx: evolving. Okay, there you go, I evolving. That's a good word. Yeah. So. 18 00:02:39.560 --> 00:02:39.940 Doc Chocolate: It was. 19 00:02:40.430 --> 00:02:41.040 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Evolution. 20 00:02:41.040 --> 00:02:42.410 Doc Chocolate: Action is a good thing. 21 00:02:42.410 --> 00:02:49.200 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, we have 5 grown kids and we're just living our best life. Now, you know. 22 00:02:50.320 --> 00:02:54.209 Doc Chocolate: I love it, I love it. And do you have anything to add? Mr. Pj. 23 00:02:54.680 --> 00:02:55.820 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Just having fun. 24 00:02:56.710 --> 00:03:00.940 Karissa and PJ Koxx: That's that's the name of the game. And you know, if if it's not fun, why do it. 25 00:03:01.420 --> 00:03:09.089 Doc Chocolate: That's it. That's it, hey? That's 1 thing that I like to say so and go ahead. You guys are based out of Phoenix right. 26 00:03:09.320 --> 00:03:10.020 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Correct. 27 00:03:10.290 --> 00:03:14.484 Doc Chocolate: Okay, okay, great, great. And before we get started, 28 00:03:15.010 --> 00:03:23.579 Doc Chocolate: go ahead and let everybody know what is the best way for them to reach you reach your socials and all that stuff. 29 00:03:24.032 --> 00:03:25.680 Doc Chocolate: Go ahead and go. 30 00:03:26.210 --> 00:03:53.100 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Okay, so I have a website. It is Carissa KARI. SSA. And then it's Cox, koxx.com, and there you can find all my socials. From Instagram to all the naughty, naughty sites twitter, all of them will take you from there. But if you just are searching the others, I'm just Carissa Cox 31 00:03:53.672 --> 00:03:55.330 Karissa and PJ Koxx: across every platform. 32 00:03:55.630 --> 00:04:00.369 Doc Chocolate: Okay. How? How did you come up with the name, Cox? I'm confused. 33 00:04:02.260 --> 00:04:20.100 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Honestly, I just started like searching out a names that no other porn star had right like, because there's so many. So I would say a name. My daughter and her girlfriend at the time would like jump onto pornhub 34 00:04:20.440 --> 00:04:31.550 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and see if there was somebody like. 1st I liked Cameron like with all these different variations. And then I was gonna be like Cameron Cox. But then there were some people named that, and so 35 00:04:31.872 --> 00:04:36.859 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we just kind of trialed and errored it. And then, when we found a name that was not on 36 00:04:36.880 --> 00:04:38.120 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Pornhub. 37 00:04:38.280 --> 00:04:45.939 Karissa and PJ Koxx: then we checked all the socials to see if there was, you know, somebody on Instagram with that name, or whatever and when there was not. 38 00:04:46.770 --> 00:04:48.620 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and I could sign it well. 39 00:04:49.108 --> 00:04:52.960 Doc Chocolate: Oh, the signature look pretty thoroughly. 40 00:04:52.960 --> 00:05:05.140 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Signature, because I was like, you know, that's an easy one move. So so that's literally just what we picked. And then somebody actually asked me before why, I didn't do like 3 X's. And honestly. 41 00:05:05.240 --> 00:05:13.950 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we are. We weren't really ever big porn people, so it never even dawned on me like, Oh, make it be triple X. 42 00:05:15.475 --> 00:05:18.580 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So it's just Cox. 43 00:05:18.820 --> 00:05:26.739 Doc Chocolate: Hey? I love Cox and my girlfriend. Charlie is listening to this, and she loves Cox too. 44 00:05:27.320 --> 00:05:27.660 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yes. 45 00:05:27.660 --> 00:05:40.949 Doc Chocolate: She said. I love Cox, says same girl alright, and you know what I will tell you that I like Carissa on you better than I like. Cameron. 46 00:05:42.010 --> 00:05:43.169 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Well, thank you. 47 00:05:43.170 --> 00:05:45.309 Doc Chocolate: And I like myself better on you than Carissa. 48 00:05:45.560 --> 00:05:46.185 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Good. 49 00:05:47.290 --> 00:06:02.259 Doc Chocolate: Just saying so, for for those of you guys who are listening to this me and Krista have had the beautiful opportunity to get together, collab and shoot. What about 3 times? 4 times? 3 times. 50 00:06:02.260 --> 00:06:06.039 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I think we're on 4 now. Yeah, I think we've shot 4. 51 00:06:06.040 --> 00:06:09.719 Doc Chocolate: Okay. And and every time gets better. So like every. 52 00:06:09.720 --> 00:06:10.450 Karissa and PJ Koxx: It does. 53 00:06:10.450 --> 00:06:16.162 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, I, I keep on adding an X to that. Cox, yeah, absolutely. Yeah. 54 00:06:16.830 --> 00:06:27.469 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I will say, though, for anybody, cause you're not going to your own horn. But it is really just. You're easy to work with. So it's easy that it gets better every time. So. 55 00:06:27.470 --> 00:06:35.079 Doc Chocolate: Oh, thank you. Thank you. So, okay. So if you were to give me a yelp review, would I like, how many stars would I get. 56 00:06:35.890 --> 00:06:43.250 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Well, what's like the Max on yelp? 5 stars like 5 stars. Okay? 5. You give 5. 57 00:06:43.250 --> 00:06:43.770 Doc Chocolate: Yes. 58 00:06:43.770 --> 00:06:53.700 Karissa and PJ Koxx: As you're easy to work with. You're not creepy. You're you have good hygiene like you're fun like 59 00:06:54.610 --> 00:06:57.600 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you're just a good guy, you know. 60 00:06:57.600 --> 00:06:58.659 Doc Chocolate: Thank you. Thank you. 61 00:06:58.660 --> 00:06:59.990 Karissa and PJ Koxx: 5 stars. 62 00:06:59.990 --> 00:07:23.720 Doc Chocolate: Thank you. Thank you. I gave you 5 stars, too, because, like, you're always fun, and it's always a fun time like working with you hanging with you. And we yeah, we just recently met. And I know you came to Abn earlier this year. In 2024. We did not meet. I met your friend, your good friend, Addison Addison James, so she's a darling. 63 00:07:23.820 --> 00:07:28.840 Doc Chocolate: and then I think she introduced us right or. 64 00:07:28.840 --> 00:07:29.740 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No me! 65 00:07:29.740 --> 00:07:30.330 Doc Chocolate: No. 66 00:07:31.830 --> 00:07:33.489 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Mr. Nuts 67 00:07:34.050 --> 00:07:41.440 Karissa and PJ Koxx: shoot House is the 1st time we met, but I feel like we had been communicating before that 68 00:07:43.340 --> 00:07:48.029 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and but that's the 1st time, I think that was April that we met in person. 69 00:07:48.790 --> 00:07:50.530 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah. Cause 70 00:07:51.230 --> 00:07:59.740 Doc Chocolate: I know that was the 1st time we met in person was at that April event in Phoenix at Mr. Nuts. He's also a good guy. Y'all make sure y'all follow him. 71 00:07:59.740 --> 00:08:00.510 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yes. 72 00:08:00.761 --> 00:08:07.059 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. I know we were communicating. I thought it was Addison that introduced us via the Dms. Or maybe it wasn't. I gotta look back. 73 00:08:07.060 --> 00:08:10.949 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No, I think I think I got included added to your group. 74 00:08:11.450 --> 00:08:14.310 Doc Chocolate: Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 75 00:08:14.310 --> 00:08:19.280 Karissa and PJ Koxx: We met at the shoot house, and then I think it was around May 76 00:08:19.300 --> 00:08:21.970 Karissa and PJ Koxx: that I came to Vegas, and we worked together. 77 00:08:22.400 --> 00:08:34.450 Doc Chocolate: Yes, it. It was very, very fun. So and you guys make sure y'all check her out she's this very beautiful. She's about what? 5? 2 would you say? Yeah. 78 00:08:34.730 --> 00:08:35.539 Karissa and PJ Koxx: 5, 4. 79 00:08:35.549 --> 00:08:46.169 Doc Chocolate: By 4. Okay brunettes and very voluptuous build. So you will definitely love what you see. So and 80 00:08:46.279 --> 00:08:49.369 Doc Chocolate: Pj, my man, how did you 81 00:08:49.776 --> 00:09:09.689 Doc Chocolate: okay before I even get into this whole content thing and all that. Look, I'm getting excited over here, you know, I just gotta clean myself up over here. I just never mind, I won't go there. But let's jump back all right. So you guys have been married for 25 years and been in the lifestyle for 5 years. So 82 00:09:10.080 --> 00:09:21.359 Doc Chocolate: tell us a little bit about you guys 1st getting together, and then how, 20 years after 20 years of marriage, you guys jumped into lifestyle like, what's the story. 83 00:09:22.200 --> 00:09:32.060 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I mean we met in like August. We were engaged in November, married in March, so. 84 00:09:32.060 --> 00:09:32.440 Doc Chocolate: Wow! 85 00:09:32.440 --> 00:09:34.840 Karissa and PJ Koxx: The whole fast track like 86 00:09:35.840 --> 00:09:41.810 Karissa and PJ Koxx: 8 months, 9 months. You know what I mean, but and like I said, we lived the suburban 87 00:09:42.590 --> 00:09:55.700 Karissa and PJ Koxx: family life for a lot of years. And we had 5 kids. And we spent a lot of time, you know, raising kids and doing the sports and through high school sports. And you know, athletics. And then 88 00:09:57.290 --> 00:10:07.880 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know, it was. It was basically her idea, you know, which you know. A lot of people find that funny, you know, because usually it's the guys. Oh, you know, you know. And 89 00:10:08.020 --> 00:10:08.866 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know, 90 00:10:09.590 --> 00:10:20.505 Karissa and PJ Koxx: obviously, she she likes girls. So that was primarily the the kind of the driving force for getting into the lifestyle, and you know, and obviously 91 00:10:21.110 --> 00:10:25.050 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we came from a religious background. 92 00:10:25.473 --> 00:10:46.930 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know, in the church, active in the church. You know what I mean in, you know, and serving in the church. So with that being said, it's kind of like, I don't know, you know. So we we delve into a lot. We listen to a lot of podcasts. And you know what I mean different stuff and kind of learned about it, and then we just kind of we jumped in 93 00:10:46.970 --> 00:10:54.050 Karissa and PJ Koxx: both feet 1.st 1st thing we ever went to was an out of town takeover with, you know, hundreds of people. And 94 00:10:54.220 --> 00:10:58.300 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we didn't know anybody. And just it kind of just took off from there. 95 00:10:58.440 --> 00:10:59.420 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah. 96 00:10:59.420 --> 00:11:06.239 Doc Chocolate: Wow! And you said jumped in. Pj, I was just imagining you like just jumping into some wet pussy. 97 00:11:06.775 --> 00:11:14.030 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Oh, no, that did not happen not the 1st time, not the 1st time. You know what I mean. And and I mean. 98 00:11:14.890 --> 00:11:23.039 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know like I said we had never done anything like that. You know what I mean. So you know. You know, the one thing that 99 00:11:23.570 --> 00:11:42.809 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we did do is is, you know, she had played with a girl, and then we had gone in a playroom which she didn't think that she was very shocked. You know what I mean that because I was definitely not as adventurous as she is. You know. And then it just kind of progressed from there. 100 00:11:43.530 --> 00:11:54.379 Doc Chocolate: Nice. So so what was your experience when she jumped in and started playing with the girl cause and let me ask you this. 101 00:11:54.720 --> 00:12:02.979 Doc Chocolate: Carissa. Did you always know that you were bisexual, and that you like girls? Or is this something that just kind of evolved along the way. 102 00:12:03.750 --> 00:12:14.679 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No, I think I always did like, I think back. And I hate to even like talk about it, because it seems so like creepy. But like, yeah, I had some experiences, and I was really young and like. 103 00:12:15.250 --> 00:12:25.079 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you just didn't really know like what they were, you know. And when we actually got in the lifestyle. I really because we did come from a religious background. 104 00:12:25.430 --> 00:12:26.650 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and like 105 00:12:26.760 --> 00:12:33.160 Karissa and PJ Koxx: he was like a deacon in our church. I mean, we were like, you know, I ran a nursery program like. 106 00:12:33.900 --> 00:12:38.860 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and I didn't grow up religious at all. So 107 00:12:39.310 --> 00:12:48.369 Karissa and PJ Koxx: when we got in the lifestyle, it like for a very long time. I did not play with men because I had a really hard time 108 00:12:49.950 --> 00:12:55.750 Karissa and PJ Koxx: separating like that that was disrespectful to my husband. 109 00:12:57.245 --> 00:13:03.700 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So for the 1st couple years, I mean, I rarely 110 00:13:04.430 --> 00:13:13.459 Karissa and PJ Koxx: played at all, just because I really struggled with the whole concept like I used to be like a team mom for football. 111 00:13:13.580 --> 00:13:30.169 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know, back in the day, and I would like just keep such a distance from the the dads and the coaches, because I never wanted it to come across as like inappropriate, so that I really did struggle with that when we got in the lifestyle, just the 112 00:13:30.460 --> 00:13:33.220 Karissa and PJ Koxx: like. I knew it was okay. 113 00:13:33.380 --> 00:13:35.510 Karissa and PJ Koxx: But just coming from where we 114 00:13:35.620 --> 00:13:39.060 Karissa and PJ Koxx: came from, and like being a wife, and like. 115 00:13:39.190 --> 00:13:42.930 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I really had a hard time with that. So yeah. 116 00:13:43.980 --> 00:14:07.779 Doc Chocolate: And you know, Chris, I think that just shows a lot of respect that you have towards your husband, and obviously your husband has a lot of respect towards you, and when you're in a long term relationship with your significant other, you definitely want to side on the side of making sure that they feel respected, and they feel welcome, and all that. So I definitely applaud you for that. 117 00:14:07.860 --> 00:14:09.820 Doc Chocolate: And so 118 00:14:10.750 --> 00:14:19.990 Doc Chocolate: when was it when you were like? I'm getting tired of all this vagina. I need some, Dick. I need some cocks with 2 x's at the end, like. 119 00:14:19.990 --> 00:14:26.709 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Honestly, it really what I mean, like, I've played like some. But okay. 120 00:14:27.090 --> 00:14:34.030 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and I would assume a lot of people listening. Understand? A 4 way. Connection is hard. Right? Yeah, 121 00:14:35.340 --> 00:14:44.120 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So I did not play a lot in the lifestyle period. I didn't really start getting a lot of the Dick. 122 00:14:44.240 --> 00:14:47.939 Karissa and PJ Koxx: until I became a creator like I just. 123 00:14:48.450 --> 00:14:56.129 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I know it's so weird I could probably count on one hand. 124 00:14:57.780 --> 00:15:02.750 Karissa and PJ Koxx: the guys I had sex with prior to like, I just 125 00:15:03.130 --> 00:15:14.790 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I maybe okay, maybe like a little more than that. But honestly, it was just. I was like always taking one for the team. There was like whiskey, Dick, like just all these things. 126 00:15:14.790 --> 00:15:15.180 Karissa and PJ Koxx: don't. 127 00:15:15.180 --> 00:15:20.589 Karissa and PJ Koxx: It just became to me where it was like I would just rather hang out and be in the environment 128 00:15:21.180 --> 00:15:22.490 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and not 129 00:15:23.630 --> 00:15:33.419 Karissa and PJ Koxx: just have sex to have sex, because I could go home and have great sex, or you know me and him could go in a room and have. So it just I quit doing that. 130 00:15:33.530 --> 00:15:40.790 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And so it really wasn't until I started doing content that I really started enjoying 131 00:15:41.170 --> 00:15:42.720 Karissa and PJ Koxx: having sex with other men. 132 00:15:43.340 --> 00:15:53.390 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And one of the things is, you know, we we always had a great sex life. Yeah. So you know, in in the lifestyle, you know. Obviously, you know you don't. You don't ever want to 133 00:15:53.550 --> 00:15:55.199 Karissa and PJ Koxx: trade down. You know what I mean, like. 134 00:15:55.790 --> 00:16:04.589 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know what I mean like. So we were. We weren't 1 of those Dtf couples. We just don't show up. Get naked, and you know what I mean like 135 00:16:04.670 --> 00:16:08.020 Karissa and PJ Koxx: it. There has to be some form of 136 00:16:09.410 --> 00:16:19.910 Karissa and PJ Koxx: mental connection like we have to like you as a person. You know what I mean. We have to like you as you know what I mean, there has to be some kind, something more than just, you know. 137 00:16:20.790 --> 00:16:24.019 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and there has to be obviously some physical. You know. 138 00:16:24.090 --> 00:16:29.979 Karissa and PJ Koxx: a lot of physical connection connection. You know what I mean. It's just not like 139 00:16:30.530 --> 00:16:38.224 Karissa and PJ Koxx: next next, next, next you know what I mean. So we were a a little more selective. You know what I mean, and a little more. 140 00:16:39.060 --> 00:16:41.289 Karissa and PJ Koxx: cautious. We don't do a lot of drama. 141 00:16:41.560 --> 00:16:41.960 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 142 00:16:41.960 --> 00:16:49.249 Karissa and PJ Koxx: We don't. We don't. We ain't got time for that. This is supposed to be fun supposed to be extracurricular. You know what I mean. And 143 00:16:49.610 --> 00:16:54.119 Karissa and PJ Koxx: it was always something extra, not a it was. It was never a a 144 00:16:54.700 --> 00:16:57.320 Karissa and PJ Koxx: well, it has to happen. Yeah. 145 00:16:57.320 --> 00:17:09.799 Doc Chocolate: Okay. So it wasn't like and like the fact that you guys are vetting and all that. And you're like, Okay, wait, we're not at Ford motors, and we're not in Detroit, and this isn't like an assembly line of Dick's and. 146 00:17:09.800 --> 00:17:12.230 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yes, and all that, you know. 147 00:17:12.460 --> 00:17:13.140 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 148 00:17:13.140 --> 00:17:17.840 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And for me, like there were a couple single guys like that I had played with 149 00:17:17.930 --> 00:17:22.570 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I would not say super early on, but like I just had like. 150 00:17:22.609 --> 00:17:50.743 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'm very upfront, like I hate texting. I hate calling like I'm married. I'm I don't. I don't want a boyfriend on the side, you know, things like that. And so I had a couple of experiences with single guys. You know, we'd have sex. And then they're like texting me. The next day, you know. Hey? Can you come over on Wednesday and stuff like that? And I'm like, listen, I told you like I don't do the texting like. If I run into you somewhere like cool, let's hook it up, you know. 151 00:17:51.080 --> 00:18:04.600 Karissa and PJ Koxx: so that kind of soured me a little bit, just because I. And you know I had one guy I showed up at a party, and he and this guy would like text me and I wouldn't respond. Then he started like Facebooking me. And I'm like. 152 00:18:06.000 --> 00:18:16.230 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and so I walked into a party, and he's like, I've been messaging you. You need to message me back, and I'm generally like I try to avoid conflict. 153 00:18:16.230 --> 00:18:16.660 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 154 00:18:16.660 --> 00:18:24.700 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Not be a brat or whatever. But I just looked at him. And I said, Yeah, actually, no, I don't like no, actually, I don't have to message you back. And I, 155 00:18:24.700 --> 00:18:29.359 Karissa and PJ Koxx: yeah, to like this was like, I walk in the middle of the party, you know, and I'm like. 156 00:18:30.090 --> 00:18:35.769 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No, I don't, and I said, and the thing is, I told you from the jump I don't do those things like so. 157 00:18:35.770 --> 00:18:36.120 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 158 00:18:36.120 --> 00:18:37.880 Karissa and PJ Koxx: To expect that from me. 159 00:18:38.140 --> 00:18:41.379 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No, sir, like no, you know. So 160 00:18:41.630 --> 00:18:46.690 Karissa and PJ Koxx: so those were kind of like some of the things I was dealing with in the lifestyle. So it just was. 161 00:18:47.150 --> 00:18:49.449 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I was like, you know. 162 00:18:49.650 --> 00:18:54.300 Karissa and PJ Koxx: but we still did enjoy the friends, the parties and stuff, you know. 163 00:18:55.080 --> 00:19:18.290 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. And I mean, it's 1 of those things where like guys need to be very, very respectful of the ladies that they play with, and obviously vice versa, like ladies need to also be respectful with guys. But I feel like we get more bad behavior in the lifestyle from us guys, because I'm sure Pj, can attest to this, us guys can be knuckleheads right? 164 00:19:18.290 --> 00:19:19.260 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Sometimes. Yeah. 165 00:19:19.260 --> 00:19:37.372 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, sometimes right? And you know, I'm that way, too, you know, like I'm busy, you know, I don't have time to be like, you know, texting and conversing and messaging, and all that, and you know I got myself a girlfriend, you know. She keeps me busy. 166 00:19:37.750 --> 00:20:01.410 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I mean, and not to listen, and not to say because I I have come a majority of the single men, and I have encountered and played with a majority are very respectful and awesome guys. So I not like I. There, I know there are couples who don't do single males, and that kind of thing that is not us. That is not me. 167 00:20:01.740 --> 00:20:07.240 Karissa and PJ Koxx: However, early on there were a couple of guys you know what I'm saying, but for the most part 168 00:20:07.250 --> 00:20:11.500 Karissa and PJ Koxx: our experience with single men has been great. 169 00:20:11.890 --> 00:20:18.250 Karissa and PJ Koxx: great. So I you know I'm not bagging single guys because I I do love and appreciate them, because 170 00:20:19.220 --> 00:20:26.809 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I don't want to say they do a service right, but they are there. They are there for us wives, right, you know. 171 00:20:27.340 --> 00:20:32.569 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and I and for me, like I want, I become friends with these men 172 00:20:32.700 --> 00:20:37.769 Karissa and PJ Koxx: because I You know, I even though it's like, Yes, we're just having sex like 173 00:20:38.020 --> 00:20:41.339 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'm a connections person like Pj. Was saying. 174 00:20:41.530 --> 00:20:50.550 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So I generally end up becoming friends with these guys, you know. And so I start not all single guys are bad 175 00:20:50.670 --> 00:20:51.290 Karissa and PJ Koxx: or. 176 00:20:51.290 --> 00:20:51.620 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 177 00:20:51.620 --> 00:20:53.440 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Out of line, you know. 178 00:20:53.440 --> 00:21:01.869 Doc Chocolate: I gotcha, I gotcha and let let me. Okay. So I met up with a couple earlier this week 179 00:21:02.120 --> 00:21:17.780 Doc Chocolate: and they okay. The guy wanted me to do a lot of extra extra things right? So it was kind of a last second meetup, right? So I go over there, get to the hotel, and I'm fucking his wife. 180 00:21:17.780 --> 00:21:34.550 Doc Chocolate: and you know I bust like 2 good nuts. I'm giving her my soul. I'm giving her my all. I'm going. Mvp, over there. Pj, heck, yeah, you know. Hey? Pj, I'm putting in some work, you know, 44 years old. But you know I put in work like. I'm a 24 year old. 181 00:21:34.580 --> 00:21:46.119 Doc Chocolate: and so, you know, I bust one nut, you know, and you know, take out the condom, you know. Bust another nut about 30 min later, you know. Because and I asked the woman while I'm there with her. I'm like. 182 00:21:46.290 --> 00:21:49.760 Doc Chocolate: you really want me to bust this nut, you know she's like, yeah. 183 00:21:50.140 --> 00:21:58.929 Doc Chocolate: give it to me. She's all whispering dirty nothings in my ear, and shit like that. You know how y'all ladies do a Carissa. And so you know, and what's a nuts? Right? 184 00:21:59.120 --> 00:22:17.579 Doc Chocolate: And so later on, we're chilling on the balcony of their hotel room, and the guy wants me to pick up his woman and fuck her standing up on the balcony. And it's December out here in Vegas. And so it's about 50, 185 00:22:17.720 --> 00:22:28.239 Doc Chocolate: about 50 degrees, you know. Maybe high forties, you know, probably about the same temperature as Phoenix. We both live in desert cities, you know, so it can get a little bit chill, right? And so I'm like dude. 186 00:22:28.250 --> 00:22:55.359 Doc Chocolate: You want me to pick your woman up, you know, very beautiful, but you know she's curvy. She's 5 foot 8, you know. She got some height to her, you know, and you want me to pick her up and fuck her and do some athletic type bullshit, motherfucker, you should have told me to do that first, st like. No, I ain't gonna do that, you know. So I say this to say this, if you're a couple. Don't treat your single guy like a fucking toy because he's not. 187 00:22:56.160 --> 00:23:08.119 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Done that. December 27th floor, the hotel we were doing. I was like, All right. Let's go on the balcony. We're on the balcony for about 4 min, and she's like, all right, we're going back inside. It's cold. 188 00:23:08.450 --> 00:23:08.910 Karissa and PJ Koxx: amazing. 189 00:23:08.910 --> 00:23:09.620 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 190 00:23:10.742 --> 00:23:15.980 Karissa and PJ Koxx: This Mgm. Signature, 7th floor. 191 00:23:15.980 --> 00:23:17.209 Doc Chocolate: I love the signature. 192 00:23:17.210 --> 00:23:25.179 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, so yeah, 27th floor. We were up there. It was windy. It was cold. It was actually right after Christmas. Yeah, so it was. 193 00:23:25.640 --> 00:23:26.310 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yes. 194 00:23:26.310 --> 00:23:26.719 Doc Chocolate: Oh, yeah. 195 00:23:26.720 --> 00:23:27.260 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No. 196 00:23:27.470 --> 00:23:30.100 Doc Chocolate: Oh, yeah, yeah, it was very cold, like I was up the. 197 00:23:30.100 --> 00:23:37.268 Karissa and PJ Koxx: When the wind was blowing up there, and she's like, all right. We'll go out there and about 3, about 3, 4 min. She's like, all right, we're going back inside. 198 00:23:37.772 --> 00:23:47.319 Doc Chocolate: She's like, fuck this. Yeah, yeah, it's yeah, yeah, don't. Yeah. Don't do that, you know. Yeah, like, whatever. Okay? Sorry I went off on my little. I got on my soapbox, so I apologize. 199 00:23:47.320 --> 00:23:53.954 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No, but I do agree. I do agree. And actually I will tell you. I had a single guy from Vegas 200 00:23:54.400 --> 00:24:06.530 Karissa and PJ Koxx: fly here to hang out with me for a weekend, and we took him to our local club, which generally doesn't like single guys, are only allowed to go if there's like with a couple and man 201 00:24:07.620 --> 00:24:09.810 Karissa and PJ Koxx: like it's a small club, and it's 202 00:24:09.820 --> 00:24:21.769 Karissa and PJ Koxx: back. Then it was like, you know, just a tight knit group. And I'll tell you. Those people that I called friends at that time embarrassed the shit out of me for how they treated him. 203 00:24:22.180 --> 00:24:24.139 Doc Chocolate: -Oh! How do they treat him? 204 00:24:24.140 --> 00:24:25.549 Karissa and PJ Koxx: They like a piece of meat. 205 00:24:25.700 --> 00:24:31.559 Karissa and PJ Koxx: like just a freaking piece of meat, and it was so gross, and I was so embarrassed, and like he. 206 00:24:31.570 --> 00:24:36.180 Karissa and PJ Koxx: he! He literally was like, I go to clubs in Vegas all the time. 207 00:24:36.920 --> 00:24:49.150 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I've never had this happen. And man in that private Facebook group for that club. I lit everybody up on that Monday morning because I was so mad like 208 00:24:49.920 --> 00:25:06.440 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I brought him in him, and I were hanging out like, and people were just acting a freaking fool, and it was just embarrassing, you know. So yes, don't like our singles, female or male. They are still freaking people, you know, like it is just 209 00:25:07.305 --> 00:25:12.669 Karissa and PJ Koxx: that you I could go on about that. But, man, don't treat our singles like that. 210 00:25:13.160 --> 00:25:14.110 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 211 00:25:14.110 --> 00:25:15.530 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Because they're there. 212 00:25:15.970 --> 00:25:23.630 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah, hey? And y'all don't don't fuck with Miss Carissa Cox because she got some hood in her like. 213 00:25:24.930 --> 00:25:34.559 Doc Chocolate: Hey, cause like, Hey, me and fun, Charlie, we're hanging with you and Pj. A few weeks ago in Vegas, and I was like man. My girl got some hood in her like 214 00:25:35.280 --> 00:25:39.869 Doc Chocolate: HOOD all cap, no cap, yes. 215 00:25:39.870 --> 00:25:40.440 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Okay. 216 00:25:40.490 --> 00:25:41.320 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. Don't. 217 00:25:41.320 --> 00:25:44.280 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I try not to bring it out, but sometimes. 218 00:25:44.280 --> 00:25:50.280 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, she hey? She woke up. She was like, I'm ready to bring some smoke, and I woke up wishing the motherfucker would. 219 00:25:51.480 --> 00:25:52.810 Doc Chocolate: and that's the bottom line. 220 00:25:52.990 --> 00:25:53.490 Karissa and PJ Koxx: That's like. 221 00:25:54.050 --> 00:26:03.489 Doc Chocolate: So so tell us a little bit about your religious backgrounds in the church. Let's talk about that a little bit, because I know a lot of our listeners. 222 00:26:03.790 --> 00:26:21.289 Doc Chocolate: some of them. They grew up in religious backgrounds. Maybe they were Catholic, Protestant, you know. Maybe they were, you know, saved, sanctified by the Holy Spirit, you know, and all that. Maybe they're Islamic, you know. But tell us a little bit about 223 00:26:21.670 --> 00:26:26.850 Doc Chocolate: your upbringing, and how it felt transitioning into the lifestyle. 224 00:26:27.999 --> 00:26:33.040 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I mean for me. I grew up in the church like my dad was in the church deacon in the church, you know. 225 00:26:33.060 --> 00:26:35.620 Karissa and PJ Koxx: real close, you know, up until about 226 00:26:35.820 --> 00:26:41.164 Karissa and PJ Koxx: early 11 or 12, and then, you know, they stepped away, and 227 00:26:41.960 --> 00:26:56.130 Karissa and PJ Koxx: on and off, and through the teen years. You know what I mean, and youth groups, and then when we got together we we started attending church together. You know neither of us were attending at the time, and you know we really delved in and and and 228 00:26:56.760 --> 00:26:58.600 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know pretty much. 229 00:27:00.110 --> 00:27:14.930 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know, we're we're full in and and and I wouldn't say, I said. You know I wouldn't say that. You know, we still have the same belief, similar belief systems. We just kind of walked away from the organized religion. 230 00:27:14.970 --> 00:27:22.780 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know what I mean the you know. And and it's just, you know, in 231 00:27:23.420 --> 00:27:25.794 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you. You start to realize that 232 00:27:26.780 --> 00:27:39.040 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know you, you have. You cut your own path, you know what I mean. And and and just because we live what they would consider an alternative lifestyle. You know what I mean 233 00:27:39.110 --> 00:27:43.079 Karissa and PJ Koxx: doesn't mean that you still can't be a believer. 234 00:27:43.120 --> 00:27:50.399 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know what I mean, or you can't have certain beliefs, because you do a certain thing, you know, and you know. And 235 00:27:51.710 --> 00:27:53.470 Karissa and PJ Koxx: it was hard to mix. 236 00:27:53.530 --> 00:27:59.900 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know, at first, st you know, because you really got to find your way, and you know, and and what you were 237 00:28:00.120 --> 00:28:02.753 Karissa and PJ Koxx: taught, or you know and 238 00:28:03.420 --> 00:28:08.126 Karissa and PJ Koxx: it's just just a matter of just personal preference. At that point, you know, and 239 00:28:10.220 --> 00:28:13.899 Karissa and PJ Koxx: going about it, and not not being judged, you know. 240 00:28:14.530 --> 00:28:42.050 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. Yeah. And I agree about that, you know, because one of the sayings of the Bible is judge, not least, you be judge, and that's 1 aspect of it right? And I spent about 10 years mostly in my twenties as a pastor out in Oklahoma, and so myself and caramel, my ex-wife. We pretty much grew up in the church, you know, during our twenties, and so once you 241 00:28:42.340 --> 00:28:59.740 Doc Chocolate: get into the lifestyle, or you're looking at getting into the lifestyle because we were in our mid thirties when we got into it. And it's definitely like a fight, you know, because, you know, let me not even say fight. It's more of a conflict, you know, whereas you have your beliefs. 242 00:28:59.780 --> 00:29:07.640 Doc Chocolate: And you're like, Okay, how do these intertwine? You know, how does this lifestyle intertwine with my spiritual belief? Right? 243 00:29:07.690 --> 00:29:13.939 Doc Chocolate: And I think one thing that many people or you know. 244 00:29:14.490 --> 00:29:21.440 Doc Chocolate: shoot off by is the fact that you know the Church has hurt so many people and their personal life. 245 00:29:21.440 --> 00:29:45.109 Doc Chocolate: and at the end of the day, you know, I personally believe in the law of love. So I believe that God is love, and I believe that we're all made in His image and likeness. And maybe some people believe in God. Maybe some people believe in aliens. Maybe some people believe in witches or whatever. Maybe some people don't believe at all. And it's okay. As long as we all walk in love. You know we love each other and treat each other like we want ourselves to be treated, you know. 246 00:29:45.471 --> 00:29:49.819 Doc Chocolate: cause. I personally believe we don't have a heaven or a hell to put anybody in. 247 00:29:53.150 --> 00:30:02.480 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And I, and I think that you know one of the things about the lifestyle is, you find more acceptance in the lifestyle than you do than you do in the organized religion. 248 00:30:02.850 --> 00:30:11.600 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, I totally agree. I totally agree. Because when I got into the lifestyle literally all my vanilla friends, you know, they pretty much like 249 00:30:11.750 --> 00:30:15.260 Doc Chocolate: got replaced with lifestyle. Fitz. 250 00:30:16.054 --> 00:30:16.850 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Totally. 251 00:30:16.950 --> 00:30:27.480 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, yeah, we. I mean, we have a we have a couple of vanilla friends still, but most everybody that we hang out with now is either lifestyle or creators. 252 00:30:27.812 --> 00:30:33.549 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And a couple of our vanilla friends started. A couple of our vanilla friends started tiptoeing. The line started. 253 00:30:33.550 --> 00:30:39.769 Doc Chocolate: Oh, shoot you out here, you guys out here evangelizing for the lifestyle? 254 00:30:40.180 --> 00:30:42.399 Doc Chocolate: Look at y'all! Y'all some evangelists 255 00:30:42.550 --> 00:30:46.059 Doc Chocolate: like. Oh, my God! He's taking people to the dark side. What's up with that. 256 00:30:46.060 --> 00:30:49.100 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, yeah, I've got one single girlfriend that 257 00:30:49.770 --> 00:30:53.775 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we'll tiptoe in, you know, when she wants a little D. 258 00:30:54.510 --> 00:30:56.190 Karissa and PJ Koxx: She's adorable. 259 00:30:56.360 --> 00:31:06.790 Doc Chocolate: Oh, shoot! I've had to talk to you about this app. Okay, let me stop. Let me stop. I'm losing all type of professionalism over here. So look, I'm I'm over here losing all my decorum 260 00:31:07.080 --> 00:31:07.410 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I. 261 00:31:08.174 --> 00:31:11.229 Doc Chocolate: So so tell us 262 00:31:11.430 --> 00:31:25.010 Doc Chocolate: how you guys transition from lifestyle into doing content. So your journey began this year, February 2024. So like, how did that take place? 263 00:31:26.140 --> 00:31:31.059 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So my girlfriend, friend, friend, girl, she's 264 00:31:31.310 --> 00:31:50.759 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Addison James. We met in the lifestyle. She's been a single in the lifestyle for as long well, longer than we've been in, but we met her that way, and her and I just hit it off, and she's newer, too. She just had her one year in the industry in July. 265 00:31:50.790 --> 00:31:57.280 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So Avian's was like really fresh, you know, that's January. So she was like, really new, and 266 00:31:57.400 --> 00:32:00.709 Karissa and PJ Koxx: she said she was gonna go, and I was like, Oh. 267 00:32:01.380 --> 00:32:15.518 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'll go with you like, you know. I'll go hang out and do whatever. And then we literally walked into crystal Davis's pink party on the Thursday night of Avns and 268 00:32:16.440 --> 00:32:18.780 Karissa and PJ Koxx: of course, like I always dress cute, you know, like life. 269 00:32:18.780 --> 00:32:19.280 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah. 270 00:32:19.280 --> 00:32:34.209 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Like lifestyle. People like dressing up like like one of my favorite things about the lifestyle. So I like had the theme down. I looked all cute or whatever. So we walk into this party and man. People are just like all over us, like. 271 00:32:34.330 --> 00:32:40.790 Karissa and PJ Koxx: oh, my God, I'd love to work with you. Blah blah blah! And I'm like Oh, no, no, no, no. 272 00:32:41.910 --> 00:32:45.500 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'm just no, that's her. And then, like 273 00:32:45.690 --> 00:32:49.010 Karissa and PJ Koxx: honestly like, I met La La Tada and her. 274 00:32:49.010 --> 00:32:49.700 Doc Chocolate: Nice. 275 00:32:49.700 --> 00:32:53.739 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Husband like I met all these great people, but honestly like 276 00:32:53.830 --> 00:32:57.190 Karissa and PJ Koxx: before that party even ended. I was like. 277 00:32:57.550 --> 00:33:14.659 Karissa and PJ Koxx: alright. Just give me your Instagram like it was just easier to be like, sure. Just give me your Instagram, you know, instead of like, explain why I was there. And I literally think I called him 1st thing the next morning because he goes to bed early, so I called him like. 278 00:33:14.660 --> 00:33:16.539 Doc Chocolate: Pj. In Vegas with you, or was he. 279 00:33:16.540 --> 00:33:18.380 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No, he was home. 280 00:33:18.380 --> 00:33:18.990 Doc Chocolate: Okay. 281 00:33:19.410 --> 00:33:26.559 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I might have been texting you from that 1st party. I don't know. I don't remember, but like within that I was like Babe. 282 00:33:27.220 --> 00:33:28.210 Karissa and PJ Koxx: like 283 00:33:28.700 --> 00:33:40.149 Karissa and PJ Koxx: he, and of course, him he's like, I've always told you you could do like you're hot. You could do it, and you know, when your husband says it like it doesn't really count right, because he has to say that. 284 00:33:41.230 --> 00:33:44.690 Doc Chocolate: I? Okay? Oh, okay, real quick. I 285 00:33:44.730 --> 00:34:03.780 Doc Chocolate: I would disagree with you on that, because yes, husbands, they view their wife, as you know the most beautiful thing ever but us husbands, or at least most of us. Obviously, I used to be an ex-husband. Well, I am an ex-husband, but like, if my wife looks like a troll, I would not tell her to 286 00:34:03.860 --> 00:34:06.929 Doc Chocolate: jump into the going, pour it. 287 00:34:07.980 --> 00:34:09.620 Doc Chocolate: but go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead! 288 00:34:09.620 --> 00:34:11.029 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Anyways. Okay. 289 00:34:12.190 --> 00:34:19.729 Karissa and PJ Koxx: well, shit. Okay. Well, anyway. So he was like. And then I was just texting him and calling him like Babe, like. 290 00:34:19.880 --> 00:34:27.570 Karissa and PJ Koxx: do you really think you know? And at this point our youngest is 20, like. 291 00:34:27.570 --> 00:34:27.940 Doc Chocolate: Okay. 292 00:34:28.289 --> 00:34:31.969 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I was a stay at home. Mom, I homeschooled our kids like. 293 00:34:33.089 --> 00:34:44.449 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I really, I mean, I was teaching Pilates, you know, because I was bored like I. And so I'm like, Yeah, maybe this is something I could. Do. You know, I've been a stay at home, mom, for all these years like 294 00:34:45.127 --> 00:34:48.259 Karissa and PJ Koxx: so, as the week wore on, you know this 295 00:34:48.349 --> 00:34:55.019 Karissa and PJ Koxx: party after party meeting, and then I met who's my now? Pr. Guy? Don Demarco, like 296 00:34:55.480 --> 00:34:58.030 Karissa and PJ Koxx: through the week of Avians. And 297 00:34:58.190 --> 00:35:04.459 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I was. I was making connections during the week of Avns, not realizing 298 00:35:05.210 --> 00:35:09.089 Karissa and PJ Koxx: that I was actually going to be doing this like. 299 00:35:09.140 --> 00:35:19.229 Karissa and PJ Koxx: but I'm just a real people person. So no matter where I'm at, for whatever reason I try, I like, want to get to know people, and you know all the things. 300 00:35:19.390 --> 00:35:23.273 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And so I came home and 301 00:35:24.030 --> 00:35:29.389 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we like talked about it, kicked it around, and then 302 00:35:30.150 --> 00:35:34.149 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I was like, you know, what like? What do I have to lose right. 303 00:35:34.150 --> 00:35:34.860 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 304 00:35:35.360 --> 00:35:45.620 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I mean. Well, what I had to lose was our best lifestyle, best lifestyle friends of 3 years decided they couldn't be our friends anymore. 305 00:35:45.900 --> 00:35:48.920 Karissa and PJ Koxx: because me doing porn is a sin. 306 00:35:49.300 --> 00:35:50.210 Doc Chocolate: What? 307 00:35:50.550 --> 00:35:52.000 Karissa and PJ Koxx: That's what everybody said. 308 00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:54.709 Doc Chocolate: That's like the pot calling the kiddo black. 309 00:35:55.200 --> 00:36:06.689 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Oh, for sure! So that was like a major heartbreak like within the 1st month of me deciding to do it like it was pretty devastating, and 310 00:36:07.670 --> 00:36:11.560 Karissa and PJ Koxx: like I really, honestly, I was super confused, right like you don't. 311 00:36:11.560 --> 00:36:12.260 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 312 00:36:12.550 --> 00:36:16.620 Karissa and PJ Koxx: They had been in the lifestyle for, like 17 years. 313 00:36:16.980 --> 00:36:17.560 Doc Chocolate: Okay. 314 00:36:17.560 --> 00:36:21.060 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And then I when I decided. 315 00:36:21.240 --> 00:36:25.520 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and they like the husband, watches porn like all these things. And so 316 00:36:25.620 --> 00:36:34.080 Karissa and PJ Koxx: so that was like. But then it was just like, Okay, you know what? That's totally you're right. If you're not cool with it like, then we don't need to be friends. 317 00:36:34.090 --> 00:36:39.850 Doc Chocolate: So the husband watches porn. And yet what you're doing is a sin, and you're. 318 00:36:39.850 --> 00:36:43.850 Karissa and PJ Koxx: But he doesn't pay for porn. He only watches free porn. 319 00:36:44.320 --> 00:36:46.890 Doc Chocolate: Okay, that's different. 320 00:36:46.910 --> 00:36:50.950 Doc Chocolate: So he's basically not even supportive of the ladies. 321 00:36:50.950 --> 00:36:51.290 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Correct. 322 00:36:51.290 --> 00:36:53.030 Doc Chocolate: Cautious, correct. 323 00:36:53.030 --> 00:36:55.409 Doc Chocolate: Maybe he's doing this in, but. 324 00:36:55.410 --> 00:36:56.950 Karissa and PJ Koxx: A cheek. Sinner? Yeah. 325 00:36:56.970 --> 00:37:08.789 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. Well, okay. So let let me ask you guys, this. And this is serious, like, was he saying that it was a sin because you're getting 326 00:37:08.800 --> 00:37:11.490 Doc Chocolate: paid for. 327 00:37:12.200 --> 00:37:13.810 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Really like honestly. 328 00:37:14.020 --> 00:37:21.969 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And we've talked about, there's no rationalization for that. Yeah, we don't. Really, you can't really differentiate 329 00:37:22.667 --> 00:37:29.219 Karissa and PJ Koxx: the difference in lifestyle. So basically, what what had to boil down to is. 330 00:37:29.740 --> 00:37:34.970 Karissa and PJ Koxx: if that's the way you feel, then there's the door. Yeah. 331 00:37:35.810 --> 00:37:52.610 Karissa and PJ Koxx: honestly like, you know what I mean. If you can't support me. If you know, as a friend you know what I mean as as open as the lifestyle is, and open minded as you're supposed to be, and accepting, as you're supposed to be of everybody in the lifestyle then. 332 00:37:53.210 --> 00:38:00.079 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Well, no. What what she said was she could be my friend, but she didn't want to hear about it. 333 00:38:02.080 --> 00:38:06.020 Karissa and PJ Koxx: which is not a friend. Right? So then I just said, Okay. 334 00:38:06.090 --> 00:38:14.105 Karissa and PJ Koxx: fine, you know. So that was kind of like the beginning. And honestly, that just made me like wanna be more successful. 335 00:38:14.470 --> 00:38:15.415 Doc Chocolate: In her face. 336 00:38:15.730 --> 00:38:20.340 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Not even just to rub it in her face. But just to be more like, Oh, okay, well. 337 00:38:20.660 --> 00:38:24.390 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'll lose one thing, but I'll gain all these things, you know. 338 00:38:24.560 --> 00:38:25.620 Doc Chocolate: So. 339 00:38:25.630 --> 00:38:34.220 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So I mean, that was definitely I mean, cause I'm a real like people like I care about my people. I love my people, I mean, you know that about. 340 00:38:34.220 --> 00:38:36.039 Doc Chocolate: You do you do you do. 341 00:38:36.040 --> 00:38:41.349 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I love hard like, you know. So when something like that happens, you know. So it was 342 00:38:42.149 --> 00:38:50.940 Karissa and PJ Koxx: but honestly, I don't. I wouldn't change it, because what I have gained and the people I have gained through 343 00:38:51.370 --> 00:38:57.210 Karissa and PJ Koxx: being a content Creator a million times over, like 344 00:38:57.990 --> 00:39:04.439 Karissa and PJ Koxx: better like I just love. I love my circle. I love my people. 345 00:39:04.940 --> 00:39:13.250 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah, you you do. And you're definitely full of love. And you know, it's not just words. Because I'll tell you guys and ladies that are listening to this 346 00:39:13.250 --> 00:39:37.550 Doc Chocolate: Carissa, she texted me a few days ago, and it was my girlfriend, Charlie's birthday, her 50th birthday. And yeah, yeah, halfway to 100. And so she was like, Hey, what's your address? You know I want to send something, and she literally says something, and like she was texting me early in the morning the next day, to make sure it came through, and I was like. 347 00:39:37.550 --> 00:39:49.489 Doc Chocolate: Carissa is good people. I was like she. She is a dolly and a sweetheart, so she doesn't just talk and talk, but she definitely walks, walk. So yeah, we love you, girl. 348 00:39:49.990 --> 00:39:52.170 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Okay, it's yeah. 349 00:39:52.590 --> 00:40:04.279 Doc Chocolate: Hey? You go ahead and cry, you know. Go ahead and shed a little tear there, and Pj. Cooks some good ass steaks like, let me. 350 00:40:04.730 --> 00:40:15.019 Doc Chocolate: Okay, I got a segue real quickly into this. So me, Charlie. Pj. Carissa, we met up, and you know we had some lifestyle slash, content, creation fun, and 351 00:40:15.450 --> 00:40:22.110 Doc Chocolate: Pj. Made some of the best steaks and shrimp and size ever shoot. 352 00:40:22.740 --> 00:40:24.350 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I try, you know. 353 00:40:24.410 --> 00:40:28.780 Doc Chocolate: Man I was like, man this boy can throw down, so does he cook like. 354 00:40:28.780 --> 00:40:30.120 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Just so crazy. 355 00:40:30.120 --> 00:40:30.830 Doc Chocolate: Marissa. 356 00:40:31.360 --> 00:40:33.429 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No? Well, so crazy like 357 00:40:33.440 --> 00:40:46.199 Karissa and PJ Koxx: since I always stayed home, like all the years he never cooked like ever, and it hasn't been until when I started teaching Pilates I taught at night, you know, the kids were all gone by then, and 358 00:40:46.220 --> 00:40:49.410 Karissa and PJ Koxx: he would start cooking for us. And then. Now 359 00:40:50.160 --> 00:40:54.609 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I have just like, be like, Hey, I'm gonna cook tonight because as a wife like I 360 00:40:55.240 --> 00:40:58.700 Karissa and PJ Koxx: that's like part of me like taking care of my husband. 361 00:40:58.700 --> 00:40:59.480 Doc Chocolate: Really. 362 00:40:59.480 --> 00:41:04.199 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'm like Babe. I love your dinner. But can I like cook because 363 00:41:04.230 --> 00:41:16.889 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I need to like nurture you like that? So yes, he does now in these last couple of years. He he's really picked up like the slack cooking for us. It's been crazy, and I love every second of it. 364 00:41:16.890 --> 00:41:30.539 Doc Chocolate: Mad cause. Yeah, I'll tell you. There's there's 3 dishes that were served that night. There was Charlie's vagina. There was Carissa's vagina, and there was Jason's steaks and shrimp, and 365 00:41:31.350 --> 00:41:33.250 Doc Chocolate: all 3, all 3 meals were very delicious. 366 00:41:33.250 --> 00:41:35.640 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Flexible and speed 60. But okay. 367 00:41:36.524 --> 00:41:43.372 Doc Chocolate: Pj, pj, i i i went to the steaks and the shrimp first.st 368 00:41:44.185 --> 00:41:48.090 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Gotta get that nourishment in for the for for later on. 369 00:41:48.090 --> 00:41:49.330 Doc Chocolate: Yes, sir. Yes, sir. 370 00:41:49.330 --> 00:41:50.240 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know. Keep that. 371 00:41:50.240 --> 00:42:00.099 Doc Chocolate: Yes, sir, and you did a. We all did a foursome scene like that. That was, that was your 1st foursome contents. 372 00:42:00.300 --> 00:42:00.910 Doc Chocolate: See, ya. 373 00:42:00.910 --> 00:42:02.960 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Oh, yeah, yeah, okay. 374 00:42:02.960 --> 00:42:07.389 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You've never. Yeah. Yeah. I've never shot, never shot with anybody but me. 375 00:42:07.560 --> 00:42:12.299 Doc Chocolate: Okay, okay. So like, how was that like, was that nerve wracking? Was that crazy? 376 00:42:12.850 --> 00:42:17.840 Doc Chocolate: And I apologize. If I was a crazy director, like when I'm director, producer. 377 00:42:17.840 --> 00:42:26.360 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No, you're good. I mean, you were perfect, gave good good direction, you know what I mean, and you know, and it was. It was a little bit like I said, I mean. 378 00:42:26.500 --> 00:42:32.169 Karissa and PJ Koxx: it's a little bit different when her and I shoot because it's just pick up the camera. And you know what I mean. And it's just. 379 00:42:32.760 --> 00:42:50.471 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you know, business as usual. You know what I mean, you know, and because we just have, we have. We have good sex, whether it's on tape or off tape. You know what I mean. It's just you know it it. So it was a little bit kind of with the camera@firstst You know what I mean a little bit you know. 380 00:42:51.580 --> 00:42:52.080 Karissa and PJ Koxx: But 381 00:42:53.150 --> 00:43:00.780 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I got over that pretty quick, you know, and it would. And one thing I I did I did tell her, and she goes. Oh, you get it now! I says. 382 00:43:00.790 --> 00:43:02.520 Karissa and PJ Koxx: That was exhausting. 383 00:43:02.520 --> 00:43:03.593 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah. 384 00:43:04.130 --> 00:43:16.240 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I was like, you know, and she goes. Now, you see, when I come home and I'm tired. You know what I mean. It's just, you know you see what I do, or when she's gone for, you know, on a couple of days, and doing, you know. 385 00:43:16.600 --> 00:43:26.840 Karissa and PJ Koxx: shoot houses or content shoots, and she goes, and then she comes home, and I'm like, All right, we ready and I'm tired. You know what I mean. I need a I need a break. You know what I mean. So. 386 00:43:26.840 --> 00:43:27.250 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 387 00:43:27.508 --> 00:43:33.449 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I got to see a little bit on the other side, you know, and and but no, it was definitely fun. Good time. 388 00:43:33.620 --> 00:44:01.060 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. And I'm actually glad you brought that up. Pj, because a lot of people that are outside of the content creation space, they think that porn onlyfans content creation, whatever you want to call it. They think it's just as easy as you know. Let's say regular sex or lifestyle, sex or whatnot. And it definitely isn't because it's most. It's very mentally exhausting. And you got to worry about your angles. You gotta worry about storylines. Even if there's like minimal. 389 00:44:01.254 --> 00:44:02.420 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Did a poor job of that. 390 00:44:02.680 --> 00:44:15.589 Doc Chocolate: No, you did. Fabulous, you did fabulous like like, and I'm not just. I'm not just saying that because you're here right now, you did fabulous, especially for a newbie like you did fabulous. So you get a 5 star review on yo for that. 391 00:44:15.590 --> 00:44:19.630 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, can we? Can we tell him what our storyline had to be? Because this guy. 392 00:44:19.630 --> 00:44:25.399 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. Oh, oh, yeah, yeah, I forgot about that. Go ahead. Okay, go ahead. Tell them. Tell tell them from start to finish. 393 00:44:25.400 --> 00:44:26.029 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Or 394 00:44:26.790 --> 00:44:41.639 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Doc and Charlie showed up. We had a condo in Vegas that weekend, and he was shaving, and he literally like took a hunk, and I don't mean like a scrape, I mean, like a piece of skin onto the razor. 395 00:44:42.013 --> 00:44:42.760 Doc Chocolate: And we. 396 00:44:42.760 --> 00:44:50.440 Karissa and PJ Koxx: We could not get it to stop bleeding like bleeding, bleeding, bleeding, bleeding. And I had a Band-aid. It was pink tie, and I, 397 00:44:51.370 --> 00:44:52.710 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Hi and I. 398 00:44:53.330 --> 00:45:01.829 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So we finally it was a long time got it stopped, and then we got the Bandaid on. So we had like a bandaid like across right here. Basically. 399 00:45:01.830 --> 00:45:02.220 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 400 00:45:02.220 --> 00:45:03.530 Karissa and PJ Koxx: His glasses. 401 00:45:03.530 --> 00:45:07.471 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was gonna say that he's like, Nelly. 402 00:45:07.830 --> 00:45:11.249 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So we had to write into the script. 403 00:45:11.710 --> 00:45:27.409 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Why, he had a Band-aid, I mean. Now, it was actually really great story, like it was a like, we just basically said, we're coming back from a swinger party, and somebody's heel had caught his face. I mean it. I mean, that can happen. You know. 404 00:45:27.410 --> 00:45:28.580 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah. 405 00:45:28.580 --> 00:45:34.429 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, so. But yeah, so I mean, he. 406 00:45:34.430 --> 00:45:38.520 Doc Chocolate: Because I think I think we said that some lady had, like some high heels on, and like. 407 00:45:38.520 --> 00:45:43.289 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean, but no, you did, great babe, like 408 00:45:44.050 --> 00:45:47.210 Karissa and PJ Koxx: you did a good job. I was really impressed. It was. 409 00:45:47.210 --> 00:45:48.320 Doc Chocolate: Yes. 410 00:45:48.320 --> 00:45:57.560 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Because Doc is like a like. Doc gave us a lot of lines, and he had, like a full script that it wasn't like. Just some like, get in and go scene. That was like. 411 00:45:57.810 --> 00:45:58.060 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we. 412 00:45:58.060 --> 00:46:04.010 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, it was a production like that was a big thing. And so you did good for your 1st time. 413 00:46:04.010 --> 00:46:05.980 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, yeah, you really, did. You really did good. 414 00:46:05.980 --> 00:46:06.360 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yes. 415 00:46:06.360 --> 00:46:11.509 Doc Chocolate: Like, yeah, because as soon as I came in and I saw that big old truck, and Chris is not joking. It was a big ass. 416 00:46:11.510 --> 00:46:12.880 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, like. 417 00:46:12.880 --> 00:46:16.149 Doc Chocolate: Like what the fuck happened to him. I was like Krissa. 418 00:46:16.150 --> 00:46:16.590 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Not me. 419 00:46:16.590 --> 00:46:18.509 Doc Chocolate: What the fuck is he doing with my guy over here? 420 00:46:19.760 --> 00:46:23.739 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, you bruising the product over here like shit. And I was like, Okay. 421 00:46:23.740 --> 00:46:26.490 Karissa and PJ Koxx: It was definitely fun, definitely fun. 422 00:46:27.012 --> 00:46:33.469 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So yeah. But honestly, for me, I was really glad that he finally like. 423 00:46:33.500 --> 00:46:39.460 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So we were there for 5 days, and we shot our scene on the last night we were there. 424 00:46:39.540 --> 00:46:45.120 Doc Chocolate: Yes, so so generally when I travel I'll go, for, you know, 3 or 4 days. 425 00:46:45.130 --> 00:46:46.889 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And then I'll come home 426 00:46:47.250 --> 00:46:54.690 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and my body's tired. My mind is tired. I'm just exhausted right? And so in our in our marriage. 427 00:46:55.670 --> 00:47:02.019 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I don't tell my husband no like I just never have. Like I I will muster it up 428 00:47:02.400 --> 00:47:06.110 Karissa and PJ Koxx: to, you know, like I just always have. That's been our thing. 429 00:47:06.350 --> 00:47:16.489 Karissa and PJ Koxx: But there are some times when I come home from these long trips where I'm just like, you know, I'll drive to La, or I'll drive to Vegas, or I'll you know 430 00:47:16.740 --> 00:47:30.510 Karissa and PJ Koxx: it's a lot right. I'm not a spring chicken. So so it was. It was really nice for me when he even only, though he worked one night of the whole trip. 431 00:47:30.810 --> 00:47:34.759 Karissa and PJ Koxx: he was like holy shit. I'm exhausted. That was so tiring. 432 00:47:34.760 --> 00:47:35.240 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 433 00:47:35.240 --> 00:47:43.000 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know. And so it was. It was really nice, because now he understands like when I come home 434 00:47:43.110 --> 00:47:51.909 Karissa and PJ Koxx: isn't. And I'm like Babe tomorrow, you know. So and that is the thing like you said people just think. 435 00:47:52.080 --> 00:47:58.719 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I mean honestly, and the sex on camera is the easy part of what we do. 436 00:47:58.720 --> 00:47:59.270 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. 437 00:47:59.270 --> 00:48:02.549 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And that's what I don't think people understand 438 00:48:02.910 --> 00:48:06.960 Karissa and PJ Koxx: like. That's the easiest part like, if that's all I had to do. 439 00:48:07.760 --> 00:48:10.250 Doc Chocolate: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, you, yeah. 440 00:48:10.250 --> 00:48:10.790 Karissa and PJ Koxx: No. 441 00:48:10.790 --> 00:48:25.109 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, cause if we just put a tripod up and just put a camera on there and just had sex and didn't care about angles and stuff like that. Yeah, that's easy as hell, like, okay, okay, you know. But and I promise you, pj, like, that was one of the most 442 00:48:25.160 --> 00:48:32.380 Doc Chocolate: the more difficult, like, Chris was saying, that was one of the more difficult shoots. So like your typical shoot, is it gonna be, you know, that? 443 00:48:32.550 --> 00:48:34.160 Doc Chocolate: Difficult, because, like, we did like 444 00:48:35.000 --> 00:48:50.179 Doc Chocolate: 7 different cuts, I think, and seeing camera angles. And then also, if somebody else is recording, it's gonna be a lot easier as well, because, like, we had to do so many cuts because the cameras were on tripods and stationary, so. 445 00:48:50.180 --> 00:48:50.640 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah. 446 00:48:50.640 --> 00:48:52.840 Doc Chocolate: I don't want to scare you off, sir. 447 00:48:53.460 --> 00:48:56.650 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'm good. Yeah, yeah. He'll be back. 448 00:48:56.650 --> 00:49:11.930 Doc Chocolate: Yeah, man. And he was putting in some work, too. Pj. Was putting in some work, because, you know, I'm over there, you know, playing with his beautiful, lovely wife, Marissa, and I'm looking over at the other side of the bed, and I see I see you. I think you had Charlie picked up, and he was just like. 449 00:49:11.930 --> 00:49:12.879 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah. Legs up. 450 00:49:12.880 --> 00:49:22.470 Doc Chocolate: Manhatling her legs up and stuff like that. I was like, God damn! I was like, you know. Hey? Me! And Chris was over there like. Wanted to pop a bag of popcorn and eat and watch. 451 00:49:22.966 --> 00:49:23.960 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Like here. 452 00:49:23.960 --> 00:49:29.729 Doc Chocolate: Hey, cause, hey? Remember, Chris, hey? We kind of gave each other. I we're like, Oh, yeah. 453 00:49:29.730 --> 00:49:32.381 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, we did. We were like, okay. 454 00:49:33.728 --> 00:49:35.339 Doc Chocolate: And we did have the motorbike. 455 00:49:35.340 --> 00:49:35.910 Doc Chocolate: Thank you. 456 00:49:35.910 --> 00:49:39.849 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, we had all the things that night that is, gonna be great. 457 00:49:40.220 --> 00:49:45.399 Doc Chocolate: Yeah. So in my crazy ass, I gotta edit all that. So anyway. 458 00:49:47.230 --> 00:49:51.399 Doc Chocolate: that's gonna be a long time alright. So 459 00:49:51.450 --> 00:49:55.170 Doc Chocolate: what else? We're coming to the end of the podcast, so 460 00:49:55.260 --> 00:50:04.949 Doc Chocolate: what else is going on for you in your content career like, do you have anything coming up or anything interesting that you're doing. 461 00:50:05.480 --> 00:50:07.600 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I have avians coming. 462 00:50:07.820 --> 00:50:08.570 Doc Chocolate: Okay. 463 00:50:08.570 --> 00:50:18.920 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I will be on the floor signing at a couple of different booths. I don't have all the details yet, but I will be getting that out. 464 00:50:19.930 --> 00:50:27.805 Karissa and PJ Koxx: So for avian's this year. I'm most like. Obviously, it's my 1st one as a creator. So I'm really going 465 00:50:29.130 --> 00:50:31.160 Karissa and PJ Koxx: to make connections. 466 00:50:31.240 --> 00:50:45.879 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I'm not really doing a lot of. I'm not scheduling any collabs. Actually. I'm just gonna be at this point doing signings. I've got some photo shoots. Some podcasts, some things, you know, I'm really just trying to 467 00:50:46.050 --> 00:50:53.119 Karissa and PJ Koxx: meet people, you know. Make the connections there and then. I'll, you know, collab. After that 468 00:50:53.320 --> 00:51:05.074 Karissa and PJ Koxx: cause I'll travel for the collabing. So I have that coming up, and then in February, I'm having surgery, and so I'll be down for a little bit. But no, it's good, it's good. 469 00:51:05.990 --> 00:51:08.763 Karissa and PJ Koxx: obviously. I'll still be doing my stuff and 470 00:51:09.780 --> 00:51:18.508 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I have enough content my content. I have brand new content, dropping probably, till like may. 471 00:51:19.010 --> 00:51:20.369 Doc Chocolate: That's good. That's a good problem. 472 00:51:20.370 --> 00:51:28.090 Karissa and PJ Koxx: But yeah, so I have a lot of content. That's why I can. You know, pop a surgery in, and, you know, get done what I need to get done, and my! 473 00:51:28.120 --> 00:51:32.010 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I hate to say fans. I hate that word like. 474 00:51:32.010 --> 00:51:33.719 Doc Chocolate: It is, though, call it what it is. 475 00:51:33.930 --> 00:51:36.960 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I know my supporters. 476 00:51:37.080 --> 00:51:41.359 Karissa and PJ Koxx: There's a reason why they call it onlyfans, and not only supporters. 477 00:51:41.790 --> 00:51:53.148 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yes, I know. I just still struggle with that. But my fans will still be getting a new drop every single week, even while I'm out for my surgery. 478 00:51:53.800 --> 00:51:54.917 Karissa and PJ Koxx: so yeah, that's 479 00:51:56.130 --> 00:52:00.130 Karissa and PJ Koxx: That's kind of what I got going on, you know. So. 480 00:52:00.130 --> 00:52:19.070 Doc Chocolate: And you guys, ladies that are listening to this make sure you check out her content because it is fire. And I don't say just say that to say it carissa cox.com carissa cox.com, and that's with K's, so KARI SSAK, oxx.com. 481 00:52:19.360 --> 00:52:30.539 Doc Chocolate: So yeah, it's it's gonna be fire. And then you guys had to also make sure you check out our foursome scene that we did. So it's myself, Carissa Cox. 482 00:52:30.650 --> 00:52:39.089 Doc Chocolate: Pj. Cox, and the very lovely fun, Charlie 420. That's gonna be fire. So I'm gonna have those edits done here 483 00:52:39.160 --> 00:52:45.450 Doc Chocolate: definitely before Avn. But I think we're gonna publish it. February, did we? Say, I forgot. 484 00:52:47.470 --> 00:52:50.470 Doc Chocolate: Let's talk about that now. She's like, Yeah. 485 00:52:50.470 --> 00:52:52.689 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Yeah, believe it's February. Yeah. 486 00:52:53.790 --> 00:52:54.890 Doc Chocolate: So. 487 00:52:55.759 --> 00:52:58.769 Doc Chocolate: So as we end this, you guys. 488 00:52:59.310 --> 00:53:09.589 Doc Chocolate: there's people that are listening to this, and maybe it's a couple, and maybe the female half, or maybe even the male half of the couple. 489 00:53:09.840 --> 00:53:18.170 Doc Chocolate: They're in the lifestyle, and they're considering the possibility of doing content being a content creator. 490 00:53:18.440 --> 00:53:22.280 Doc Chocolate: What piece of advice. Would you guys give them. 491 00:53:24.570 --> 00:53:26.970 Karissa and PJ Koxx: For me, I would say. 492 00:53:27.330 --> 00:53:34.240 Karissa and PJ Koxx: seek out other people who've already gone before. You ask lots of questions. 493 00:53:35.040 --> 00:53:42.490 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and don't be afraid to reach out to someone who's successful. Because if you don't reach out, the answer is always no. 494 00:53:43.510 --> 00:53:44.060 Doc Chocolate: I love that. 495 00:53:44.060 --> 00:53:53.140 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know. Yeah. And you gotta surround yourself with people who are already doing what you want to do. 496 00:53:54.680 --> 00:53:55.030 Doc Chocolate: I will! 497 00:53:55.030 --> 00:54:03.950 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know, and for me, cause I'm kind of in the back, you know, behind the scenes. You know what I mean. I mean, you just gotta find you gotta cut your own path. 498 00:54:04.060 --> 00:54:22.359 Karissa and PJ Koxx: You know what I mean, do what works for you, because what? Some, what works for you or what works for somebody else may not be your cup of tea, so don't feel like you have to do something because somebody else is doing it. You know what I mean. You can still do what you want to do and work within your 499 00:54:22.460 --> 00:54:31.030 Karissa and PJ Koxx: boundaries. I would say you know what I mean, and don't feel pressure to do something that is outside of your boundaries, you know, don't ever 500 00:54:31.230 --> 00:54:33.549 Karissa and PJ Koxx: don't compromise, you know. 501 00:54:34.280 --> 00:54:38.729 Karissa and PJ Koxx: And for us, that's we. You know we talk about 502 00:54:38.880 --> 00:54:57.289 Karissa and PJ Koxx: everything, and you know she's always checking in with me, are you? You still good? You know you were good. We started you still good. Is there anything? You know what I mean? And I was like, no, I'm good, you know, and I'll I'll let you know if if there's something or there's somebody. That's you know. 503 00:54:57.380 --> 00:55:06.780 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we haven't really come across that yet. Who I say? Yeah, I'd I'd rather you not. You know what I mean. And obviously she would respect that. You know what I mean. But 504 00:55:06.880 --> 00:55:11.440 Karissa and PJ Koxx: we we haven't really had that issue. But you know. 505 00:55:11.890 --> 00:55:14.005 Karissa and PJ Koxx: speak up, you know what I mean, and 506 00:55:14.896 --> 00:55:20.450 Karissa and PJ Koxx: I will piggyback off that your boundaries like. There are a few things I do not do. 507 00:55:21.320 --> 00:55:28.940 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and there! There's no amount of money that someone can offer me that will make me do 508 00:55:29.120 --> 00:55:32.669 Karissa and PJ Koxx: those things that's not within who I am. 509 00:55:32.770 --> 00:55:37.249 Karissa and PJ Koxx: and it has not hurt me one bit to not do those things 510 00:55:38.360 --> 00:55:45.900 Karissa and PJ Koxx: so never like, he said. Do not compromise. Stay true, because what once you compromise. 511 00:55:46.020 --> 00:55:52.739 Karissa and PJ Koxx: then you're unhappy, and then it's not going to be fun, and you aren't going to enjoy what you're doing. 512 00:55:53.840 --> 00:56:13.799 Doc Chocolate: I love that that is solid advice, you 2. So this has been another episode of bulls and queens, and you have been listening to the very lovely, gorgeous, vivacious Caressa Cox and her handsome husband, Mr. Pj. Cox. 513 00:56:13.800 --> 00:56:24.920 Doc Chocolate: and you can see them. Their website, the fun content that they [email protected]. That's carissacox.com, and it's spelled K. 514 00:56:25.130 --> 00:56:39.339 Doc Chocolate: KARI. SSAK. oxx.com. And so until next time bulls and queens nation, y'all stay sexy, y'all say. Blessed y'all stay loving each other, and we will talk to you later. Bye. 515 00:56:39.500 --> 00:56:40.330 Karissa and PJ Koxx: Bye.